The Moye Family

The Moye Family

Sunday, December 9, 2012

36-37 Weeks!

Week 37...I can hardly believe it! I must say the closer we are getting the less anxious I am becoming and just want him to be here. I have to be honest, I got a little emotional earlier this week because I wanted him here so much. Jeff had to remind me that we want a healthy baby and the longer I can keep him inside me the better off we are. I know this to be true, but it is still so difficult to wait!

We had a doctor's appointment December 3rd. This was my first weekly check-up appointment. We found out at this point that I still hadn't dropped all the way (didn't figure I had), was a fingertip dilated, and was about half effaced. The doctor said my weight gain and blood pressure were great and so was Jude's heartbeat (150 beats per minute). The only news from the appointment that has us a bit worried is that they are still uncertain of whether he had turned the correct way or not. We have an ultrasound scheduled for December 12th so hopefully we can see exactly what he is doing. There are times when I think he is turned how he needs to be, and then other times I have no idea what he is doing! I must say though that I keep feeling him move more and more! I won't complain about having another ultrasound because I think it will be wonderful to see him this far along! However, I am still praying that he will make the turn but if that doesn't happen I have faith that everything will still be for the best. Most importantly we want Jude to enter this world in the safest and healthiest way possible. :)

37 week picture
Our breastfeeding class went well. I was so proud of Jeff for attending (not a lot of dads care to). Many of the information presented I had already read about and was told from friends, but it was nice to hear it all again. It was especially great for Jeff because now I think he will know how to help me out more especially when I hit that point of  "I can't do this anymore!"

We finished up Christmas shopping this past week and I have all the presents wrapped! What a wonderful feeling to be done and not have to worry about it. Of course, we have no idea when we will actually get to celebrate Christmas with anyone, but that is okay! I am hoping with the next post to have some of our Christmas decor pictures.

I am officially beginning to feel ready for my maternity leave. I have everything planned up until Christmas break and have gone over everything with Katie (my maternity leave). I am definitely looking forward to having the weeks off with Jude!

Our nursery is officially finished too! Please enjoy all of the pictures!

The Crib!
The tennis rackets belonged to Jeff's grandma!
Old toys that belonged to Jeff's dad.
More old toys that belonged to grandpa!
Hard to kind of see....but my mom got us this plane and it looks adorable hanging in front of the window!
Rocking chair-present from my mamaw and papaw!
Inside of closet...the clothes are organized by size thanks to etsy, and the baskets and containers also help with organization1
Jeff had to add the Cardinals picture :)

Dresser-changing pad-all the neat vintage decor from Jeff's family plus a few extra presents!
Fell in love with these signs!
As you walk into the room....
This old window belonged to Jeff's grandma so I painted for Jude's bathroom!
Thirty-one storage for the bathroom!





How far along? 37 weeks (and 2 days)

Total weight gain: 27 pounds (yikes!)

Maternity clothes? Same old story...I am getting really tired of wearing the same things over and over again though!
 
Stretch marks? So far so good.....

Sleep: Depends on the night. Some nights I do okay and others I do not sleep a wink. Heartburn has finally crept up on me and it loves to keep me up at night.

Best moment this week: Hearing the Jude's heartbeat again. Wrapping Christmas presents (puts me in the holiday spirit), and spending time with Jeff and his fire department Christmas parties.

Miss Anything? Probably not having heartburn......

Movement: A definite wiggle worm!

Food cravings: Nothing really. Although I was craving McDonald's today!

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope
Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks and mind cramping but that's it.

Symptoms: Braxton hicks, hot flashes, heartburn, leg cramps......

Belly Button in or out? Flat!

Wedding rings on or off? On

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy! :)

Looking forward to: Our ultrasound on Wednesday will be exciting! Continuing to get the final things in order for Jude's arrival. Our hospital bag is packed along with as much as I can of the baby bag. I have washed some of Jude's clothes. I don't want to wash all because we don't know what size he will be yet! I will be calling our photographer this week to confirm our newborn pictures! I am of course looking forward to all the holiday excitement!

Monday, November 26, 2012

35 Weeks

We had a busy holiday week with Thanksgiving and my dad's wedding. I quickly came to the realization through it all that I just cannot do as much as I did before the pregnancy! Wednesday I had a doctor's appointment. It was nothing more than a quick check. She let me know that everything was normal and I was doing well. There is still a concern about Jude not turning, but we have a few weeks left for him to do so. As my husband and dad both said, "He has a mind of his own just like his mom!" I have my next appointment on December 3rd and from that point on will have them every week. It's crazy to think we are to that point! Jeff, Kasey, and I left on Thursday morning to have Thanksgiving with his family. We had a delicious meal and were able to see Kari's Snoopy room for both Jude and Blaize. That night I had my first Black Friday experience. I have avoided the whole tradition for years now, but Jeff found some luggage at a good price at Kohls and had me convinced to go. We got here at a 11 pm and were not in bed until 2 in the morning! That is a lot for pregnant woman in my stage! :) However, we did get the luggage plus a few other things for me! We had Thanksgiving Friday with my mom and then Sunday with my dad. In between all that we did some Christmas shopping and had my dad's wedding! I cannot express enough how lucky I am to have such a wonderful and supportive husband. By Saturday night I was exhausted and in pain and he did nothing but take the best of care of me. He will without a doubt make a perfect daddy!

After we came home Sunday, I spent the rest of the evening working up at my classroom trying to get ready for my maternity leave. My sub is spending from here on out with me and the kids getting to know our routine. I am lucky to have someone who can spend this much time with us. I can already tell that she is going to be fantastic with the kids.
Christmas decorations are already up. My husband was wonderful and took of the outside lights last night. I have a picture below of Jude's first ornament! Love it! :)


This week we hope to get the final touches on Jude's room and hopefully most of our Christmas shopping done. I am ready to get the wrapping done and everything out of the way. I just keep thinking of how we only have 4 1/2 weeks left until he is hopefully here! Right now everyone is my family is beginning to take bets on when he will arrive. Most agree that they do not think I will make it to Christmas. I guess we will just have to wait and see!

35 Weeks....in front of one one of our Christmas trees!
How far along? 35 weeks (and 3 days)

Total weight gain: I cannot believe that I have gained 24 pounds!

Maternity clothes? Same old same old

Stretch marks? Not that I can tell yet

Sleep: Definitely not getting enough! I know it is just in preparation for Jude!

Best moment this week: Jude's continuous movement cannot be beat! Purchasing his stocking was pretty neat too!

Miss Anything? Not having back pain!

Movement: I feel like I have an earthquake in my belly sometimes!

Food cravings: Nope

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Labor Signs: I get braxton hicks when I haven't emptied my bladder enough or I overdo it.

Symptoms: Mostly back and leg pain...I need to find more time to keep walking. The weather just isn't cooperating!

Belly Button in or out? Flat and out on top!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy!

Looking forward to: My breastfeeding class on Wednesday and my 36 week appointment on Monday. I am getting checked to see if I am dilated and if little Jude has turned yet!

Friday, November 16, 2012

Weeks 33-34

We just keep getting busier and busier as time nears for Jude's arrival! I am officially 34 weeks today. I had a doctor's appointment last Thursday. They say everything looks great and normal so far :)
I go again on Wednesday the 21st, and after that appointment I will begin going every week.

On the 3rd we went to our birthing class at the hospital in Carbondale. It was a LONG day, but we both felt it was worth it. I am one of those people to where the unknown just drives me crazy. Being able to have a tour of the birthing center really eased my fears. The nurse there was great even giving us labor position demonstrations! It gave me so much more to even think about! I will go there again on the 28th for my breastfeeding class which I heard was terrific.

As time nears closer for our little Jude to be here, I realize more and more how blessed we truly are. We had our shower back home in Bridgeport on the 10th. Jim and Kari were kind enough to plan and throw the shower at their home. This was no easy feat as more people showed up than we imagined, so we had a full house! This just continued to help me realize how many people we have that love us and support us, and will of course in return love Jude to no end.

We are currently working on making a decision towards a babysitter for Jude when I have to go back to work. This decision is almost a painful one for me as I cannot imagine letting anyone else take care of him for so many hours while I have to work. I just try to always remember that God will help us in making the right decision for who will best care for him. Work on Jude's room is continuing. I must stay that everything is almost ready and organized (at least as best as it can be). We will be heading to Evansville tomorrow to pick up a few more necessities. Needless to say my mind is going a mile a minute trying to keep track of everything we need. I have begun preparing our hospital bag and the baby bag this week as well. I have great friends who have been helping me along the way with advice on what will be necessary and what we can leave behind or not purchase. Once again it is just another way of showing us how blessed we are for such supportive friends.

As far as school goes, I am going to begin preparing the room and plans for my maternity leave next week. The girl who will do the maternity leave will start visiting and shadowing me as soon as Thanksgiving break is over. I am of course always nervous to leave my classroom and kids in someone else's hands, but I know that once Jude is here he will be my complete priority! I love how in the hallways students will always make such cute comments! "You have a baby in your belly!" or "Your belly is getting bigger, Mrs. Moye!" Of course my favorite is when I hear "You don't even look pregnant from behind!" (I feel very lucky for that)!

In other news we are shopping for my sister's bridal gown tomorrow! Can't believe my little sister will be getting married! We will be heading back home next week to spend Thanksgiving with our families, and to attend my dad's wedding on Saturday!

Below are some pictures from our shower in Bridgeport along with my week 33 and week 34 pictures. I hope to post more pictures of the baby's room soon!

Can you believe chocolate letters for his name??

Delicious food!

Start of our shower

Blanket that my mom made for Jude!

Yes, we are starting him early as a firefighter! My cousin made a great find with this one!

Our swing!

33 weeks!

34 Weeks-I feel ready to pop!

Future uniform!

Firefighter Kasey will be Jude's best friend!

I am quite impressed with my mom's handmade blanket!

Had to add a picture of all the "Grandpa" things from my dad. I just love how it brings a touch of my dad into Jude's life!



How far along? 34 weeks

Total weight gain: 21 pounds

Maternity clothes? Still the same stuff I bought a couple of months ago. I did just receive some nursing pajamas today though! They are quite comfy!

Stretch marks? I don't see any yet.

Sleep:Not consistent at all! I toss and turn most of the night :(

Best moment this week: Oh wow! Still too many. Jude's constant movements are amazing! Our shower was such a blessing and I loved every minute of it too.

Miss Anything? It's hard to miss a thing when I know all of this is for our little guy :)

Movement: I feel him quite often every single day!

Food cravings: Nope

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope

Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks are a bit stronger at times

Symptoms: My huge belly for starters!!!!!

Belly Button in or out? Flat and a little bit out at the top

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy!

Looking forward to: Wedding dress shopping with my sister tomorrow and finishing up Jude's room!

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Weeks 31-32

I really had good intentions of posting sooner than this, but we have definitely been busy! School has been at its utmost stressful. Not only do the kids have a ton going on, but we've had parent teacher conferences to top it all off! Talk about extremely LONG days and evenings. I finally know how it feels to have swollen feet ankles thanks to these few nights. I must say though it is getting harder to believe that my maternity leave is slowly approaching. I am of course looking forward to it (even though I always hear it is not at all relaxing), but I know I will miss my kiddos while I am gone.
In other news my in-laws, Jim and Kari, came down last Friday to see our ultrasound. We were getting another growth check to double check on the due date. Needless to say the day ended up being quite an adventure. We arrived at the doctor's office in Carbondale only to find out that they had messed up and only scheduled me a normal appointment instead of an ultrasound. Since my family had traveled 2 1/2 hours to be there they sent us to another imaging clinic down the road to have the ultrasound done. What a relief! We found out that our little guy is right where he needs to be. He was 3 pounds and 10 ounces and showing a due date now of December 24th. The entire time he just kept moving his little mouth and it was just amazing. Right now he is breech but hopefully with the weeks left he will continue to move. I was so happy to share this experience with family! Here are a couple of the ultrasound pictures:


 You can tell he just loves to curl his little legs up!

 Such a perfect little face!



Here is a gift from Kari and Jim. Jude's first coat!



We had our first baby shower down here in Herrin this past Sunday! My sister and my mom did a great job of planning it and helping us to get ready. A big thanks goes out to my mamaw, Rose and dad, and Kari for providing some of the yummy food! I was excited to get to spend some time with my family and friends. It was the perfect reminder of how lucky and blessed Jeff and I truly are! It is during the times of reflection such as now, that I know I have God to thank for everything he had given Jeff and I. I know he is providing us with all the love, family, and friends we need to help in guiding us through this journey.


 Beginning of the gift table

 My sister does such a marvelous job of designing such cute signs!

 My mom even got a little creative on this one! She used onesies and receiving blankets for flowers!


Mimi found the most delicious cupcakes! They were a hit!

One of our shower gifts from my mamaw and papaw. So excited to have stroller I can actually lift easily! Not to mention it makes the perfect turns!

So I had to show the first gifts from my sister! It looks like she is really hoping for Jude to be here before Christmas! 



This was such a neat gift from my mom that I had to share! This is not just your typical traveling diaper pad and storage. This was made from the Africa Baby Company where they provide support for American missionaries to Zimbabwe and provide jobs to unemployed ladies in Zimbabwe. This item was specifically designed by a lady from Zimbabwe. 
Jude's room is beginning to actually look like a baby's room. Since it is not fully ready yet. I am only posting a sneak peak of it. There are still a few items we are missing. I must say it has come together perfectly for what I had in mind.
Jeff has worked super hard at hanging everything up and putting everything together. I know I just could never do all this without him. I am beyond blessed to have in my life. I know deep in my heart that I couldn't have made a better choice for a husband or father!

To end to our exciting past couple of weeks, Jeff and I have begun the process of finding a pediatrician for Jude. We met with Dr. Bhaskar from the Pediatric Group llc in Marion. I felt extremely comfortable meeting with him and in the environment. His beliefs seem to match well with Jeff, and I and the office is extremely close! They offer Saturday appointments, work as a group, offer a lactation specialist, and will be at the hospital when Jude is born. Before we make the final decision though, we are meeting with one more doctor Friday in Carbondale. After weeks of stressing over finding a babysitter for Jude, we finally might have a few options! Thanks to a lady I work with, she suggested her cousin. We are meeting with her in a couple of weeks. Hopefully we will have daycare lined up in no time! Finally, we have our birthing class this Saturday. I am hoping that I can walk away from it feeling a bit more prepared!

How far along? 31 weeks (and 5 days)

Total weight gain: My total weight gain is about 22 pounds.

Maternity clothes? Nothing new. Getting tired of having the same stuff to wear though!

Stretch marks? None yet

Sleep: I can't say my sleep is consistent at all. I wake up several times a night either having to pee, needing water, needing food, not being able to breathe, or just being plain hot! I am now lucky enough to be getting leg cramps at night to top it all off! I just say that the lack of sleep is preparing me for what is to come :)

Best moment this week: Oh wow what to choose! I would have to say hearing Jude's heartbeat and seeing him on the ultrasound. That cannot be beat! However, the time spend with friends and family at our shower is priceless too.

Miss Anything? There's no possible way to miss anything when I feel Jude moving inside me throughout the day:)

Movement: All the time!

Food cravings: Nothing at all

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Just Braxton Hicks contractions

Symptoms: The only time I get uncomfortable is when he balls up and really presses out right around my belly button. The swollen feet from parent teacher conferences haven't been pleasant either. Other than that I still feel pretty good!

Belly Button in or out? Well, when I am laying down the belly button looks pretty flat. When I am standing though it almost looks normal.

Wedding rings on or off? On and still fitting the same as it always has.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy except for when I want to stay home and look at baby stuff instead of going to school!

Looking forward to:  Choosing our doctor and finding our babysitter! I also cannot wait for our shower in Bridgeport on the 10th. Oh, I almost forgot! My sister got engaged so we are looking for her wedding dress the 17th! That is of course very exciting as well! :)















Tuesday, October 16, 2012

29 Weeks-Third Trimester!

It is so hard to believe that another 2 weeks have flown by and I am into my third trimester. I feel as if it wasn't that long ago I found out I was pregnant. I am still still trying to wrap my mind around the idea that Jude will be here in a matter of two months! 

I had my doctor's appointment last Monday where I had my glucose test. Everything tested just fine (thank goodness). I spent all day not eating because I was determined to pass this test! While there the doctor told me she would like to do another ultrasound on October 26th to take a look at Jude's size and to see if we are on track with the due date. I am just ready to stick to one date! Although we all know he will come when he is ready to come! My blood test did show that my white blood cell count was high so I have to get tested again when I go for my ultrasound. She most likely believes this is due to the fact that I had just gotten over the flu days before and still had a cold at the time of the appointment. Talk about a rough week! 

Last week was definitely full of new excitement for baby Jude. I started out with my doctor's appointment and then Jeff and I had our maternity pictures taken. I knew I wanted to document every wonderful moment of this experience, so the maternity pictures were a perfect opportunity. Lauren Seidel out of Marion did a fantastic job. Here are just a few pictures from the session below:


Daddy's work boots with Jude's soon to be boots!

We all know that Jude will have to become a firefighter like his daddy when he grows up!

Last week continued with Jeff putting together our pack-n-play. Just seeing it made me even more excited for Jude's arrival!


On Friday, Jeff's dad and Kari (Mimi) brought down our long awaited baby furniture! Jeff spent part of the weekend getting it put together. We still have a LONG way to go, but every time I go in the room I just fall more and more in love with our little guy and cannot wait for his arrival. I will post more pictures as soon as we get more of the room ready!



Jim also brought down my one-year anniversary present from my husband. It will be the perfect reading and cuddling spot for Jude and his mama!



Finally, Jeff and I ordered out car seat. We got a great deal for it, so we had to order it!



Here is a picture of me at 29 Weeks!
How far along? 29 weeks (and 4 days)

Total weight gain: About 19 pounds

Maternity clothes? Love the pants!

Stretch marks? Not yet!

Sleep: I am definitely passing out earlier and earlier! I still continue to wake up early thought...mostly cause I am starving!

Best moment this week: Everything! Too many exciting moments happening to choose just one!

Miss Anything? I love Jude too much to miss anything!

Movement: Quite a bit! We had a video presentation today at school and needless to say it was loud! Jude must have noticed because we was tumbling and rolling like crazy the whole time!

Food cravings: Still really liking the Kix cereal with berries.

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: No! He needs to keep baking for a while longer!

Symptoms: Besides growing larger????Pregnancy brain is in full force! Talk about forgetful, clumsy, and all over the place!

Belly Button in or out? It is still mostly all in!

Wedding rings on or off? On

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy!

Looking forward to: I am thrilled to continue finishing Jude's room! Our first baby shower is also the 28th so I am looking forward to spending some time with family and friends. Also, I can't wait for another ultrasound on the 26th! I know Mimi is excited too! :)