The Moye Family

The Moye Family

Friday, December 21, 2012

38-39 Weeks

Well, I am officially 39 weeks today. There are moments where I truly feel he could be here anytime and then I am back to feeling almost normal. Right now it is still just a waiting game! I had my doctor's appointment Wednesday for a check up. Everything still looks great between my weight, growth, blood pressure, and Jude's heartbeat (his heartbeat is 130)! I almost forgot that I hadn't explained my ultrasound and appointment from the 12th! We have wonderful new pictures of our little man below. In good news, he has turned head down so no worries about a c-section as of right now. He is also 6 pounds and 14 oz. Probably over 7 pounds by now! I am 1 cm dilated at the moment (not as near as much as I would like), still half effaced, and he's dropped just a bit more. Dr. Tsung explained that I really could go anytime so not to let the only 1 cm dilated to discourage me. My next appointment is the 26th. If we don't have him by then I am hoping that we will be closer so he can be here before January. I can definitely feel more pressure and cramping and know that is a good sign of him hopefully being here soon. Our hospital bags are officially packed and in the vehicle along with the car seat. In addition, our photographer has been contacted and I have been busy looking for newborn photo ideas. Needless to say we are as ready as we can be right now. Please keep prayers and thoughts coming our way as we are nearing the birth of Jude and our adventure as parents!

School is completely finished as of today. I will definitely miss my kids but know I will enjoy this time home with Jude more than anything. They have been such a great class during this time, even spoiling me with quite a few baby gifts! :)
I am glad that I finally get a few days to try and relax with no school. I have been so sore here lately and not sleeping at all that school has been a little rough!

We will start celebrating Christmas this weekend. Everyone will be heading this way at some point so we do not have to travel. I am thankful to get to spend the holidays here in our own home. I am sad that I am not able to do all the Christmas baking that I did last year, but I guess I should enjoy being spoiled for this year as everyone cooks for us!

38 Weeks-I need to get a week 39 picture now!

Close up of Jude


I am wondering if that is a little bit of hair on top of his head??

Still definitely a boy!

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How far along? 39 weeks and 1 day!

Total weight gain: The same!

Maternity clothes? Nothing new.

Stretch marks? Still in the clear......praying it stays that way!!!!!!!

Sleep: I seem to wake up every couple of hours. I have also noticed that I am sleeping best when I can kind of sleep upright on the couch.

Best moment this week: Spending the last week of school with my kids and celebrating Christmas. Of course, putting last minute baby touches on everything here at home and hearing Jude's heartbeat cannot be matched!

Miss Anything? Actually being able to lay down without hurting!

Movement: He still wiggles and hiccups quite a bit. He even had the hiccups during our ultrasound.

Food cravings: No cravings

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Labor Signs: Just more pressure and cramping...the Braxton hicks contractions are coming a bit more frequently too.

Belly Button in or out? The top is sticking out more!

Wedding rings on or off? On....still no swelling!

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy except when super tired!

Looking forward to: Christmas with all the family and spending it in our home for the first time. Most importantly we are looking forward to the arrival of Jude! :)

Sunday, December 9, 2012

36-37 Weeks!

Week 37...I can hardly believe it! I must say the closer we are getting the less anxious I am becoming and just want him to be here. I have to be honest, I got a little emotional earlier this week because I wanted him here so much. Jeff had to remind me that we want a healthy baby and the longer I can keep him inside me the better off we are. I know this to be true, but it is still so difficult to wait!

We had a doctor's appointment December 3rd. This was my first weekly check-up appointment. We found out at this point that I still hadn't dropped all the way (didn't figure I had), was a fingertip dilated, and was about half effaced. The doctor said my weight gain and blood pressure were great and so was Jude's heartbeat (150 beats per minute). The only news from the appointment that has us a bit worried is that they are still uncertain of whether he had turned the correct way or not. We have an ultrasound scheduled for December 12th so hopefully we can see exactly what he is doing. There are times when I think he is turned how he needs to be, and then other times I have no idea what he is doing! I must say though that I keep feeling him move more and more! I won't complain about having another ultrasound because I think it will be wonderful to see him this far along! However, I am still praying that he will make the turn but if that doesn't happen I have faith that everything will still be for the best. Most importantly we want Jude to enter this world in the safest and healthiest way possible. :)

37 week picture
Our breastfeeding class went well. I was so proud of Jeff for attending (not a lot of dads care to). Many of the information presented I had already read about and was told from friends, but it was nice to hear it all again. It was especially great for Jeff because now I think he will know how to help me out more especially when I hit that point of  "I can't do this anymore!"

We finished up Christmas shopping this past week and I have all the presents wrapped! What a wonderful feeling to be done and not have to worry about it. Of course, we have no idea when we will actually get to celebrate Christmas with anyone, but that is okay! I am hoping with the next post to have some of our Christmas decor pictures.

I am officially beginning to feel ready for my maternity leave. I have everything planned up until Christmas break and have gone over everything with Katie (my maternity leave). I am definitely looking forward to having the weeks off with Jude!

Our nursery is officially finished too! Please enjoy all of the pictures!

The Crib!
The tennis rackets belonged to Jeff's grandma!
Old toys that belonged to Jeff's dad.
More old toys that belonged to grandpa!
Hard to kind of see....but my mom got us this plane and it looks adorable hanging in front of the window!
Rocking chair-present from my mamaw and papaw!
Inside of closet...the clothes are organized by size thanks to etsy, and the baskets and containers also help with organization1
Jeff had to add the Cardinals picture :)

Dresser-changing pad-all the neat vintage decor from Jeff's family plus a few extra presents!
Fell in love with these signs!
As you walk into the room....
This old window belonged to Jeff's grandma so I painted for Jude's bathroom!
Thirty-one storage for the bathroom!





How far along? 37 weeks (and 2 days)

Total weight gain: 27 pounds (yikes!)

Maternity clothes? Same old story...I am getting really tired of wearing the same things over and over again though!
 
Stretch marks? So far so good.....

Sleep: Depends on the night. Some nights I do okay and others I do not sleep a wink. Heartburn has finally crept up on me and it loves to keep me up at night.

Best moment this week: Hearing the Jude's heartbeat again. Wrapping Christmas presents (puts me in the holiday spirit), and spending time with Jeff and his fire department Christmas parties.

Miss Anything? Probably not having heartburn......

Movement: A definite wiggle worm!

Food cravings: Nothing really. Although I was craving McDonald's today!

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope
Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks and mind cramping but that's it.

Symptoms: Braxton hicks, hot flashes, heartburn, leg cramps......

Belly Button in or out? Flat!

Wedding rings on or off? On

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy! :)

Looking forward to: Our ultrasound on Wednesday will be exciting! Continuing to get the final things in order for Jude's arrival. Our hospital bag is packed along with as much as I can of the baby bag. I have washed some of Jude's clothes. I don't want to wash all because we don't know what size he will be yet! I will be calling our photographer this week to confirm our newborn pictures! I am of course looking forward to all the holiday excitement!

Monday, November 26, 2012

35 Weeks

We had a busy holiday week with Thanksgiving and my dad's wedding. I quickly came to the realization through it all that I just cannot do as much as I did before the pregnancy! Wednesday I had a doctor's appointment. It was nothing more than a quick check. She let me know that everything was normal and I was doing well. There is still a concern about Jude not turning, but we have a few weeks left for him to do so. As my husband and dad both said, "He has a mind of his own just like his mom!" I have my next appointment on December 3rd and from that point on will have them every week. It's crazy to think we are to that point! Jeff, Kasey, and I left on Thursday morning to have Thanksgiving with his family. We had a delicious meal and were able to see Kari's Snoopy room for both Jude and Blaize. That night I had my first Black Friday experience. I have avoided the whole tradition for years now, but Jeff found some luggage at a good price at Kohls and had me convinced to go. We got here at a 11 pm and were not in bed until 2 in the morning! That is a lot for pregnant woman in my stage! :) However, we did get the luggage plus a few other things for me! We had Thanksgiving Friday with my mom and then Sunday with my dad. In between all that we did some Christmas shopping and had my dad's wedding! I cannot express enough how lucky I am to have such a wonderful and supportive husband. By Saturday night I was exhausted and in pain and he did nothing but take the best of care of me. He will without a doubt make a perfect daddy!

After we came home Sunday, I spent the rest of the evening working up at my classroom trying to get ready for my maternity leave. My sub is spending from here on out with me and the kids getting to know our routine. I am lucky to have someone who can spend this much time with us. I can already tell that she is going to be fantastic with the kids.
Christmas decorations are already up. My husband was wonderful and took of the outside lights last night. I have a picture below of Jude's first ornament! Love it! :)


This week we hope to get the final touches on Jude's room and hopefully most of our Christmas shopping done. I am ready to get the wrapping done and everything out of the way. I just keep thinking of how we only have 4 1/2 weeks left until he is hopefully here! Right now everyone is my family is beginning to take bets on when he will arrive. Most agree that they do not think I will make it to Christmas. I guess we will just have to wait and see!

35 Weeks....in front of one one of our Christmas trees!
How far along? 35 weeks (and 3 days)

Total weight gain: I cannot believe that I have gained 24 pounds!

Maternity clothes? Same old same old

Stretch marks? Not that I can tell yet

Sleep: Definitely not getting enough! I know it is just in preparation for Jude!

Best moment this week: Jude's continuous movement cannot be beat! Purchasing his stocking was pretty neat too!

Miss Anything? Not having back pain!

Movement: I feel like I have an earthquake in my belly sometimes!

Food cravings: Nope

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Labor Signs: I get braxton hicks when I haven't emptied my bladder enough or I overdo it.

Symptoms: Mostly back and leg pain...I need to find more time to keep walking. The weather just isn't cooperating!

Belly Button in or out? Flat and out on top!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy!

Looking forward to: My breastfeeding class on Wednesday and my 36 week appointment on Monday. I am getting checked to see if I am dilated and if little Jude has turned yet!

Friday, November 16, 2012

Weeks 33-34

We just keep getting busier and busier as time nears for Jude's arrival! I am officially 34 weeks today. I had a doctor's appointment last Thursday. They say everything looks great and normal so far :)
I go again on Wednesday the 21st, and after that appointment I will begin going every week.

On the 3rd we went to our birthing class at the hospital in Carbondale. It was a LONG day, but we both felt it was worth it. I am one of those people to where the unknown just drives me crazy. Being able to have a tour of the birthing center really eased my fears. The nurse there was great even giving us labor position demonstrations! It gave me so much more to even think about! I will go there again on the 28th for my breastfeeding class which I heard was terrific.

As time nears closer for our little Jude to be here, I realize more and more how blessed we truly are. We had our shower back home in Bridgeport on the 10th. Jim and Kari were kind enough to plan and throw the shower at their home. This was no easy feat as more people showed up than we imagined, so we had a full house! This just continued to help me realize how many people we have that love us and support us, and will of course in return love Jude to no end.

We are currently working on making a decision towards a babysitter for Jude when I have to go back to work. This decision is almost a painful one for me as I cannot imagine letting anyone else take care of him for so many hours while I have to work. I just try to always remember that God will help us in making the right decision for who will best care for him. Work on Jude's room is continuing. I must stay that everything is almost ready and organized (at least as best as it can be). We will be heading to Evansville tomorrow to pick up a few more necessities. Needless to say my mind is going a mile a minute trying to keep track of everything we need. I have begun preparing our hospital bag and the baby bag this week as well. I have great friends who have been helping me along the way with advice on what will be necessary and what we can leave behind or not purchase. Once again it is just another way of showing us how blessed we are for such supportive friends.

As far as school goes, I am going to begin preparing the room and plans for my maternity leave next week. The girl who will do the maternity leave will start visiting and shadowing me as soon as Thanksgiving break is over. I am of course always nervous to leave my classroom and kids in someone else's hands, but I know that once Jude is here he will be my complete priority! I love how in the hallways students will always make such cute comments! "You have a baby in your belly!" or "Your belly is getting bigger, Mrs. Moye!" Of course my favorite is when I hear "You don't even look pregnant from behind!" (I feel very lucky for that)!

In other news we are shopping for my sister's bridal gown tomorrow! Can't believe my little sister will be getting married! We will be heading back home next week to spend Thanksgiving with our families, and to attend my dad's wedding on Saturday!

Below are some pictures from our shower in Bridgeport along with my week 33 and week 34 pictures. I hope to post more pictures of the baby's room soon!

Can you believe chocolate letters for his name??

Delicious food!

Start of our shower

Blanket that my mom made for Jude!

Yes, we are starting him early as a firefighter! My cousin made a great find with this one!

Our swing!

33 weeks!

34 Weeks-I feel ready to pop!

Future uniform!

Firefighter Kasey will be Jude's best friend!

I am quite impressed with my mom's handmade blanket!

Had to add a picture of all the "Grandpa" things from my dad. I just love how it brings a touch of my dad into Jude's life!



How far along? 34 weeks

Total weight gain: 21 pounds

Maternity clothes? Still the same stuff I bought a couple of months ago. I did just receive some nursing pajamas today though! They are quite comfy!

Stretch marks? I don't see any yet.

Sleep:Not consistent at all! I toss and turn most of the night :(

Best moment this week: Oh wow! Still too many. Jude's constant movements are amazing! Our shower was such a blessing and I loved every minute of it too.

Miss Anything? It's hard to miss a thing when I know all of this is for our little guy :)

Movement: I feel him quite often every single day!

Food cravings: Nope

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope

Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Braxton Hicks are a bit stronger at times

Symptoms: My huge belly for starters!!!!!

Belly Button in or out? Flat and a little bit out at the top

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy!

Looking forward to: Wedding dress shopping with my sister tomorrow and finishing up Jude's room!

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Weeks 31-32

I really had good intentions of posting sooner than this, but we have definitely been busy! School has been at its utmost stressful. Not only do the kids have a ton going on, but we've had parent teacher conferences to top it all off! Talk about extremely LONG days and evenings. I finally know how it feels to have swollen feet ankles thanks to these few nights. I must say though it is getting harder to believe that my maternity leave is slowly approaching. I am of course looking forward to it (even though I always hear it is not at all relaxing), but I know I will miss my kiddos while I am gone.
In other news my in-laws, Jim and Kari, came down last Friday to see our ultrasound. We were getting another growth check to double check on the due date. Needless to say the day ended up being quite an adventure. We arrived at the doctor's office in Carbondale only to find out that they had messed up and only scheduled me a normal appointment instead of an ultrasound. Since my family had traveled 2 1/2 hours to be there they sent us to another imaging clinic down the road to have the ultrasound done. What a relief! We found out that our little guy is right where he needs to be. He was 3 pounds and 10 ounces and showing a due date now of December 24th. The entire time he just kept moving his little mouth and it was just amazing. Right now he is breech but hopefully with the weeks left he will continue to move. I was so happy to share this experience with family! Here are a couple of the ultrasound pictures:


 You can tell he just loves to curl his little legs up!

 Such a perfect little face!



Here is a gift from Kari and Jim. Jude's first coat!



We had our first baby shower down here in Herrin this past Sunday! My sister and my mom did a great job of planning it and helping us to get ready. A big thanks goes out to my mamaw, Rose and dad, and Kari for providing some of the yummy food! I was excited to get to spend some time with my family and friends. It was the perfect reminder of how lucky and blessed Jeff and I truly are! It is during the times of reflection such as now, that I know I have God to thank for everything he had given Jeff and I. I know he is providing us with all the love, family, and friends we need to help in guiding us through this journey.


 Beginning of the gift table

 My sister does such a marvelous job of designing such cute signs!

 My mom even got a little creative on this one! She used onesies and receiving blankets for flowers!


Mimi found the most delicious cupcakes! They were a hit!

One of our shower gifts from my mamaw and papaw. So excited to have stroller I can actually lift easily! Not to mention it makes the perfect turns!

So I had to show the first gifts from my sister! It looks like she is really hoping for Jude to be here before Christmas! 



This was such a neat gift from my mom that I had to share! This is not just your typical traveling diaper pad and storage. This was made from the Africa Baby Company where they provide support for American missionaries to Zimbabwe and provide jobs to unemployed ladies in Zimbabwe. This item was specifically designed by a lady from Zimbabwe. 
Jude's room is beginning to actually look like a baby's room. Since it is not fully ready yet. I am only posting a sneak peak of it. There are still a few items we are missing. I must say it has come together perfectly for what I had in mind.
Jeff has worked super hard at hanging everything up and putting everything together. I know I just could never do all this without him. I am beyond blessed to have in my life. I know deep in my heart that I couldn't have made a better choice for a husband or father!

To end to our exciting past couple of weeks, Jeff and I have begun the process of finding a pediatrician for Jude. We met with Dr. Bhaskar from the Pediatric Group llc in Marion. I felt extremely comfortable meeting with him and in the environment. His beliefs seem to match well with Jeff, and I and the office is extremely close! They offer Saturday appointments, work as a group, offer a lactation specialist, and will be at the hospital when Jude is born. Before we make the final decision though, we are meeting with one more doctor Friday in Carbondale. After weeks of stressing over finding a babysitter for Jude, we finally might have a few options! Thanks to a lady I work with, she suggested her cousin. We are meeting with her in a couple of weeks. Hopefully we will have daycare lined up in no time! Finally, we have our birthing class this Saturday. I am hoping that I can walk away from it feeling a bit more prepared!

How far along? 31 weeks (and 5 days)

Total weight gain: My total weight gain is about 22 pounds.

Maternity clothes? Nothing new. Getting tired of having the same stuff to wear though!

Stretch marks? None yet

Sleep: I can't say my sleep is consistent at all. I wake up several times a night either having to pee, needing water, needing food, not being able to breathe, or just being plain hot! I am now lucky enough to be getting leg cramps at night to top it all off! I just say that the lack of sleep is preparing me for what is to come :)

Best moment this week: Oh wow what to choose! I would have to say hearing Jude's heartbeat and seeing him on the ultrasound. That cannot be beat! However, the time spend with friends and family at our shower is priceless too.

Miss Anything? There's no possible way to miss anything when I feel Jude moving inside me throughout the day:)

Movement: All the time!

Food cravings: Nothing at all

Anything making you queasy or sick: Nope.

Gender: Boy!

Labor Signs: Just Braxton Hicks contractions

Symptoms: The only time I get uncomfortable is when he balls up and really presses out right around my belly button. The swollen feet from parent teacher conferences haven't been pleasant either. Other than that I still feel pretty good!

Belly Button in or out? Well, when I am laying down the belly button looks pretty flat. When I am standing though it almost looks normal.

Wedding rings on or off? On and still fitting the same as it always has.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy except for when I want to stay home and look at baby stuff instead of going to school!

Looking forward to:  Choosing our doctor and finding our babysitter! I also cannot wait for our shower in Bridgeport on the 10th. Oh, I almost forgot! My sister got engaged so we are looking for her wedding dress the 17th! That is of course very exciting as well! :)